It was bound to happen sometime.
Papa and I have taken many, many road trips and traveled thousands of miles over the years. We usually return happy and pleased from our journeys and how enjoyable they were. Our latest jaunt – not so much.
We deliberated about a destination for a couple weeks before we settled on one. In my quest to visit all 50 of our United States of America, only five remain.
But three of those are in the deep south and since our trip would take place in June, I didn’t think I could withstand the heat and humidity there. (I am a fair-weather kind of gal.)
That left the other two faraway destinations – Hawaii and Alaska – and we hadn’t allowed enough time to plan for those extensive trips. Besides, we wanted to take yet another road trip.
So, we decided to visit our next-door neighbor country, Canada, where the weather would be cool, and we could trek to the Maritime Provinces where we’d never been before.
Our journey and sights we viewed will be the subject of my Tuesday Tour in the weeks to come. But today, let me tell you why this road trip just didn’t float our boats like we envisioned.
We’ve been to Canada before. Back in the early 1970’s, I traveled there with my parents when we crossed the border to view the Canadian side of Niagara Falls and we enjoyed our stay there. Papa was in Toronto once on a business trip.
Over 20 years ago, our middle daughter played in a weekend soccer tournament in Buffalo, New York, and we spent some time in between games in Canada so our teenaged kids also could visit Niagara Falls.
Easy peasy. Crossing the border years ago simply meant stopping at the checkpoint, showing a driver’s license as ID, answering a few simple questions, and driving into that country.
But times have certainly changed and now, it’s very different. We did our research though. We had our passports in hand. We checked to make sure Papa’s cell phone would be accessible there.
We determined whether food and produce could be brought legally into the country and packed a cooler with simple lunch items, water, and snacks. We exchanged some American dollars for Canadian ones and ensured our major credit card would be accepted as well.
We researched places to sightsee, made hotel reservations for each day of our trip, and devised an itinerary for New Brunswick, Prince Edward Island, and Nova Scotia.
We were prepared, we thought. But we weren’t prepared for some minor mishaps and a few disappointments we encountered along the way.
Our first long day of driving occurred without a hitch. We drove from our home in Pennsylvania all the way to Maine where we spent the night.
Since we’d already traveled through New England in the past, we omitted stopping except for gas, rest area stops, a picnic lunch, and a restaurant dinner.
We were excited to drive to the U.S./Canada border the next day. And that’s when our trip began to go somewhat awry.
Crossing into Canada wasn’t easy peasy for these two old polite, law-abiding, and hard of hearing senior citizens who had no contraband whatsoever in their vehicle.
After a scolding for a misunderstanding on our part for which we apologized profusely, we were more than thoroughly questioned by the border agent, including the need to produce an itinerary.
Then we were detained in the checkpoint building while our car was searched.
We totally understand and appreciate the need for caution when crossing another country’s border, but the first agent seemed annoyed with us, although others we encountered were nice.
In an effort to not cause an “international incident,” (just kidding) I won’t go into details about what happened next. But I will say it ended with an over exuberant search dog who wasn’t on a leash and me.
Feeling a bit unnerved and a tad upset afterwards, we put it behind us and drove to our first destination in New Brunswick, a neat place to see. Rain arrived so we opted for a picnic lunch in our vehicle. Opening up the back of our SUV to access the cooler, we found muddy dog paw prints over everything.
Not fun, but oh well, we shrugged that off. However, a little black cloud just seemed to follow us for the rest of the trip.
We traveled during what’s called the “shoulder season,” the off season, but some of the places we had hoped to visit were closed, had shorter hours of operation, or were difficult to find.
I can’t tell you how many trips we made through a round-about in an effort to find an advertised visitor’s center which was supposed to be there but just wasn’t.
Again, time consuming and not fun, but oh well.
After many miles and hours of driving without spotting any interesting scenery or places to stop, we arrived at our hotel for our first night in Canada. The next day, we traveled to Prince Edward Island and enjoyed our day there.
But on our second day on the island, we drove to sights we planned to view and found a couple were not quite as impressive as we thought they’d be.
Not a lot of fun.
Finding no other spots we were interested in seeing by early afternoon, we realized we had a long wait to catch the 6 p.m. ferry to Nova Scotia which we had reserved and paid for in advance. We drove there hoping to find a town in the vicinity and perhaps some little shops in which to occupy our time.
Nope, just the ferry dock, so basically, we waited. Just sat in our vehicle in our assigned lane, with only one car ahead of us, for a couple hours. Papa read on his Kindle, and I worked some crossword puzzles and also read.
Not really fun.
When the ferry arrived and it was our turn to board, Papa maneuvered our vehicle down a narrow ramp into that huge vessel’s bowels and unfortunately, that little black cloud appeared again.
Suddenly, I experienced claustrophobia as we were crammed in with cars on all sides of us in that ferry’s lower level, where it was hot and smelling of diesel fuel and exhaust. I couldn’t wait for the signal to exit our car and run up the couple levels of stairs to the outside deck of the ferry.
Not fun, but once I was out in the fresh, chilly air, I was okay and the 75-minute ferry ride itself was quite enjoyable.
Thankfully, disembarking was fast since we were the second car loaded, but we still endured another long drive late in the evening to our hotel. We arrived tired and a bit unhappy with how our trip was going.
Not fun.
That’s when we discussed whether we wanted to cut our excursion short. And we did. Papa logged onto his laptop, we changed our itinerary and cancelled some hotel reservations, so we’d leave for home sooner.
By then, I encountered another irritation. Some kind of insect feasted on me when we walked to view a lighthouse the day before. I didn’t see the bug, just felt something under my sunglasses and flicked it away. I didn’t realize I had been bitten until that night when my cheek began to itch.
I applied some anti-itch cream (I’m always prepared with a first aid kit) and turned in for the night. The next morning, I awakened to a fiery red cheek with a hard center surrounding the bite mark and swelling.
Not fun.
As the day went on, my cheek became even more inflamed and swollen. Papa also was bitten but did not have an extreme reaction like mine.
Nevertheless, we continued with our abbreviated trip agenda and truly had a pleasurable time in Nova Scotia. However, by evening, the left side of my face had ballooned. Swelling spread towards my nose and up into my eyelid.
My eye wasn’t swollen shut, thank goodness, but I looked a little like Popeye the Sailor Man, (without the muscles and pipe!) and the rock hard center around the bite mark was larger, it hurt a little, and had started to ooze.
Not fun and somewhat disconcerting.
We had driven back to New Brunswick by then and decided if the swelling hadn’t subsided by morning, we’d depart Canada and locate an urgent care center once we returned to the U.S.
Of course, it wasn’t any better the next morning, and my eyelid was prominently swollen by this time. The attraction we planned to view was fogged over, and we also realized our timing was way off to experience the phenomenon we’d hoped to see.
Not fun and disappointing.
We scratched the remaining sightseeing stops off our list and opted to head for the border, a couple hours drive. Filling up with gas in a small Canadian town, I noticed a large grocery store with a pharmacy.
Thinking perhaps purchasing some Benadryl would alleviate the swelling, we parked and attempted to enter the building at a door directly under the pharmacy sign, which seemed the logical way to access that part of the store.
Wrong idea! As Papa pulled on the handle to open the door, a loud alarm blared. Really? Black cloud again!
Not fun.
We sheepishly walked to the next door – couldn’t get in there either. Turns out only one door gained entrance into the store. Once inside, I grabbed the over-the-counter med from a shelf but hesitated and decided to ask the pharmacist for help.
He was very nice, thank goodness. He asked me several questions but was concerned the Benadryl would make me too drowsy. Instead, he personally found another generic (and less expensive) allergy med for me.
After cautioning me to take it for only a week and see my doctor if my issue didn’t improve, I assured him I would as we were on our way back to the States.
Can you believe we couldn’t figure out which door to use to leave the store and returned to the cashier to inquire about that? Even though there were several doors, only one of them allowed customers to exit.
By this time, we were more than ready to just go home.
Crossing back into the U.S. was simple and when the American border agent said, “Welcome home,” I wanted to shout “Hooray!” I jokingly told Papa I felt like we should stop the car, get out, and kiss the ground.
Okay, I’ll admit I got a bit emotional and weepy when I noticed an American flag flying in the breeze after we crossed the border into Maine. I was that relieved to be on our way home.
We endured another long drive south – unfortunately caught in rush-hour (which should be called rush hours) traffic around Boston – to our Connecticut hotel.
Finally, 3000 miles and way too much time spent in our vehicle later, we arrived home safe and sound. And oh, by the way, the swelling eventually reduced but the bite mark remained for about a week. I’m happy to report I had no other ill effects.
We didn’t suffer any major problems, for which we are very grateful, just minor irritations. So we’ll chalk this one up to adventures in travel – whether they be wonderful or not so great. But it won’t stop us from road tripping.
And in the next few weeks, I promise happier versions about our trip to Canada will be posted.
“Because the greatest part of a road trip isn’t arriving at your destination. It’s all the wild stuff that happens along the way.” ~ Emma Chase
©mamasemptynest.wordpress.com 2024