Chasing mirages

Just when I start to feel sorry for myself, being isolated and so bone-weary of it, stuck at home with dismal, overcast, gray skies in the throes of winter, some thoughts cross my mind making me shake off my lethargic woe-is-me attitude and pause to be grateful.

It seems to be our human nature to always want what we can’t have. Some of us live our entire lives this way, always wanting more and more to fill up some vast void deep inside of us. We think that if we just had this magic cure-all, this latest do-thingy, this status-symbol invoking whatever, it will make us feel like we have a “good” life.

And really, all of those things we long for or thirst after are only just mirages. They never will make us feel whole and satisfied.

Dull, dreary surroundings get the best of me especially when sunshine is lacking. And I feel like I’m grasping for something that just isn’t there – that mirage image – instead of taking time to realize what I do have. 

Do I have sunshine every day? Nope, not when I live in a part of my home state which is notorious for having more overcast days than not.

Can I travel too far outside my home right now? Nope. That dratted virus is still causing fear and panic.

Can I visit friends and family near and far? Nope due to a repeat of the above issue.

Can I explore new indoor places/activities/volunteer opportunities/social gatherings? Nope. Same story.

But…I must stop chasing after mirages, even if they’re only in my thoughts, and focus on the real, tangible blessings in my life right now.

I am well, even after a little mishap that kept me from spending any time on electronics or my favorite pastimes of reading and working on crossword puzzles for a couple of days. And all of my family is well also.

I possess all the necessities of life: clean water to drink, nourishing food to eat (and my spouse, Papa, who is enjoying cooking right now), a comfortable home that we own, our own transportation, heat to warm these cold days, electricity, clothes to wear, and means of communicating with family and friends even if I can’t see them in person.

I have companionship with my best friend and husband of 40+ years, and I am loved by family and friends. Furthermore, I have a God who listens, understands, and answers in His perfect way and timing when I tell my troubles to Him in prayer.

And I am reminded that I wouldn’t truly appreciate and be thankful for all of those treasures if life was always sunshine, lollipops, and rainbows. Sometimes it takes experiencing dark, difficult, and trying circumstances to consider the saving graces we do have and feel gratitude for them.

What brought all this to my mind? The following quote:

“All sunshine makes the desert.” ~ Arabian proverb

©mamasemptynest.wordpress.com 2021

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  1. This is a good reminder. I need to try to focus on this because so much stinks right now. I prayed for friends for my daughter and she finally had them but then their mother sent them away to live with their father 3,000 miles away and my daughter no longer has friends and I can’t take her anywhere to meet anymore of them. Everything is closed and no one wants to meet new people. They are all scared of a virus who has made some sick but most I know are doing okay (a couple were not but are on their roads to recovery.). Ir wouldn’t be so bad except she hasn’t had friends in two years and the girls who used to be her friends were part of a friend group who used to talk to me but dropped me two years ago. She’s so lonely and it breaks my heart … I’ve been crying over it a lot this week . Anyhow … I will try to focus on the blessings during these hard times for us all.

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    • Oh, I’m so sorry. When hard things happen to our children, it distresses us the most, so I completely understand. The ramifications of this pandemic are affecting us all negatively, but I do believe it’s hard on children. I know it’s not easy, but even in the most dire circumstances, there is something to be grateful for. I’m reminded of Jesus’ words in John 16:33 – “In this world you will have trouble, but take heart, I have overcome the world.” Focusing on God’s Word gives us peace to prevail. Be blessed today, Lisa.

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