Here today, gone tomorrow

blogDSCN8943Just a few days ago, they dotted my green expanse of yard with cheery spots of bright yellow.  And now each and every one of them is gone.

They were the dandelions.  The sunny little bloom that most people think of as weeds.  When I see them though, they remind me of childhood.  Of warm, spring-like days when the sun shined brightly as I hopped off the school bus and walked through our yard to my home.

I would stop here and there and gather up a handful of blooming dandelions.  Their juicy stems left a sticky sap on my fingers, but I didn’t mind.  As I presented my little bouquet gift of dandelions to my mother, she never once said, “Why are you picking these weeds to bring to me?”  Instead she would ask, “Aren’t they pretty?” and put them in a jar of water on the kitchen table.

Today people use weed killer spread over the lawn in an attempt to eradicate these bursts of color in their yard.  But I don’t.  Because yellow, perky dandelions remind me of spring and sunshine and childhood memories and even my own children.  And they make me smile and fill my heart with happy thoughts.

But time marches on and so the dandelions come to the end of their blooming cycle.  Where once were lemony colored petals on the stem, only wisps of seeds remain.  When I was a child, I picked the stems after the blooms turned to white balls of fluff, closed my eyes, made a wish, inhaled a deep breath,  and blew with all my might to send the dandelion seeds and my wishes sailing into the air.

A spring gust of wind would lift the feathery seeds up and carry them along as they floated and sailed in the breeze.  Fluttering.  Gliding.  Drifting.

Today in my book called Opportunity, I’m reminded that life is much like the dandelion.  Here today, gone tomorrow.

Bursting forth with vim and vigor, and then fluttering along in the air of life. Floating.  Sometimes soaring, but eventually brought down to earth until we wither and are no more.

But the story doesn’t end there.  The dandelion seeds produce more happy yellow blooms next spring.  For us humans, our legacy lives on in our children and their children.  Just like dandelions.

In reflection of that, I’m savoring my thoughts and memories today, holding tight to these joyous moments of life as we prepare to marry off our three offspring.   Just yesterday it seems my home was noisy and full of rambunctious children.  Now it is quiet and tranquil.

Just yesterday it seems my middle child, the one full of spark and livelihood, was a youngster.  And now she is a grown up young lady who will be dressed in white lace and escorted down the church aisle by her father to be given in marriage in just one short month.

She’ll fly off with her husband …. her husband…my daughter is old enough to have a husband!   There will be new adventures for her, a new home, a different state in which to live, even a new job.   She looks forward to this exciting next chapter of her life with such joy.  I saw it glowing in her face at her bridal shower this past weekend as she opened her  gifts and talked about the wedding.

Just like the dandelions I once held in my hands, I also once held my precious children.  And now the day draws near when I must release them completely.  As the wind carries the wispy remains of dandelions to and fro in this spring season, my children also will soar into their futures, to their upcoming marriages, to their new lives in this current season of life.  I will watch and rejoice as they float and glide along and I will remember dandelions.

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16 responses

  1. Love your dandelion thoughts. Your mother knew you had been thinking and remembering her in your bouquet. You have me thinking of all the seeds that are planted to return for the next blooming season a year away! What a difference a year makes.
    I remember taking my finger nail to cut a needle’s eye hole almost to the end of a stem and then stringing a chain of them into a necklace. That’s when we had time to think of such things, and a day always included playing as hard as we could outside.
    Random thought from your dandelions that come and go. Butterflies. I never could catch one in my hands. I guess the same goes with grown kids.


  2. Oh, Cindy. You have such a beautiful gift. Love reading your blogs. This one brought tears to my eyes. I love dandelions, also. The yellow dots in a lush, green lawn are beautiful to me. Also, what mother doesn’t melt when her little ones present her with a handful of “posies”? Your children are blessed with such a loving mother, and I’m sure they are well equipped to tackle this big, wonderful world as a result of your nurturing.


  3. What a beautiful post! It reads almost like a song – your love for your children so strong and your understanding of life’s grand beginnings and endings and beginnings again. Thanks for sharing.


    • Thank you, Dor! That one just flowed out of my heart. I really hadn’t planned on taking the time to write a post as we are in the throes of preparing for middle daughter’s wedding in one short month, but the images were so vivid and the words fully formed in my mind. They literally just oozed out of me (amidst a few tears, I must admit!)


  4. How proud you must be. Everything looks so beautiful and special. Even though mine are a couple decades away from marriage and leaving the nest; your photos brought tears to my eyes. Continued blessings as this journey with your children continues.


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